P3168 turned `std::optional` into a range type, so the partial specialization
of `StringMaker` for `std::optional<T>` conflicted with the partial
specialization for range types. Ideally we will fix this in the future
to support user-provided partial specializations for range-like types,
but for now we just disable the partial specialization for `std::optional<T>`
if P3168 is implemented.

The old internals reached into the global hub to stash the allocation(s)
for enum value -> string value there, then kept around a potentially
invalid (in case the hub was cleaned up) reference into it, going through
whole bunch of virtual dispatch in the process.

The new internals just store the data in a static variable inside the
`StringMaker` specialization. This avoids potential lifetime issues,
avoids all virtual dispatch and (almost) reduces the include bloat in
the main header path.

The reason for (almost) there is that for full include correctness,
`EnumInfo` needs `<utility>` include for `std::pair`. However, this brings
in things like `std::relops`, because the std headers in C++ are dumb.
As this was not included before, and instead we relied on `std::pair`
existing in an internal stdlib header that we transitively included, the
full include size ends up bigger than before.

This stops tests failing falsely if the assertion passed, but the
stringification itself failed as the assertion was sent to the reporter.

I don't think that stringification should be fallible, but the
overhead in compilation ended up being small enough (<0.5% on `SelfTest`)
that it might be worth implementing, in case there is more users
with weird `StringMaker`s than just MongoDB.

Closes #2980

Fixes #2685

`gmtime*` on Windows fails on dates pre 1970, and because we didn't
check the return code, we would then pass invalid `tm` struct to
`strftime` causing it to assert.

Closes #2944

* bugprone-branch-clone
* bugprone-copy-constructor-init
* bugprone-empty-catch
* bugprone-sizeof-expression
* bugprone-switch-missing-default-case
* bugprone-unused-local-non-trivial-variable
* clang-analyzer-core.uninitialized.Assign
* clang-analyzer-cplusplus.Move
* clang-analyzer-optin.cplusplus.VirtualCall
* modernize-loop-convert
* modernize-raw-string-literal
* modernize-use-equals-default
* modernize-use-override
* modernize-use-using
* performance-avoid-endl
* performance-inefficient-string-concatenation
* performance-inefficient-vector-operation
* performance-noexcept-move-constructor
* performance-unnecessary-value-param (and improve generator example)
* readability-duplicate-include
* readability-inconsistent-declaration-parameter-name
* readability-non-const-parameter
* readability-redundant-casting
* readability-redundant-member-init
* readability-redundant-smartptr-get
* readability-static-accessed-through-instance
* unused variable in amalgamted tests